Here's an excerpt:
"Most of us look at marriage as a team activity. That makes sense, it is a partnership, after all. However, that "team" perspective often gets in the way of saving marriages from divorce. Countless marriages that could have been saved end up destroyed because people fail to understand that a different way of looking at problems can produce awesome results.
Instead of thinking about marriage as two people trying to lift a big rock, start thinking about a teeter-totter. I know it sounds strange, but follow me for a moment."
Take a look at "Save a Marriage Before It's Too Late With a Special Approach" if your marriage is experiencing difficulties.